Get to It & Do It...

Let's start with the Word. We'll be keeping this one short and sweet...

1 Corinthians 7:3-4

"Sexual drives are strong, but
 marriage is strong enough

to contain them, and provide for a fulfilling
 sexual life 

in a world of sexual disorder. 

The marriage bed must be a place of mutuality-

the husband seeking to satisfy his wife,

the wife seeking to satisfy her husband." (The Message)

And there you have it. Have sex with your husband.

Need I go on? Okay then...

1 Corinthians 7:5

"Don't withhold yourselves from each other

unless you agree to do so for a set time

to devote yourselves to prayer. 

Then you should get back together  so that 

Satan doesn't use your lack of self control

to tempt you." (God's Word Translation) 

And there is it again. Sex is good for your marriage.

So do it.

I would end here, but that wouldn't make for a very good read. 
So let's talk some more.

God created sex as a means for you and your hunni to enjoy each other. You know how you can be really hungry and go to the grocery store to buy food? You see everything and everything looks and smells its best when you go shopping on an empty stomach. You wind up buying a lot of food that you really don't need, spending more money than you have to spend and overeat. Everything seems good at the time, but when its all said and done, you should have eaten before you left home.

Same goes for sex.

Its good to have sex when you're married for so many different reasons. Its a form of intimacy, where you and your husband can become one flesh, literally. Its fun, obviously. Its how you expand your loving family. And its a form of actual physical exercise. You can burn calories and everything. Its true. I Googled it. 

But its also good because it helps relieve tension. Have you ever had an argument, then had sex?
What were we arguing about again? LOL.

When you deprive your husband of your body and its pleasures you are doing more to hurt your marriage than help it. Men are visual and physical. They actually need sex to function well. It keeps his attitude in a good place and helps his blood flow properly. It also improves your relationship with him. That's how he feels close to you. That's what he thinks will ultimately make you happy. And when you're happy, he's happy. You don't want him watching all the hips that switch past him over the course of the day. You don't want him accepting advances from other ladies. And you don't want him thinking about other women when he should be thinking about you. Sex, lots of sex and lots of good sex will help him stay where he should. And you too, missy. You don't want your eyes wandering around either. That could make everyone unhappy.

Making love should come naturally to you. You don't have to be the freakiest freak of the week, but you should stay interested in continuing to please your husband. It keeps trouble out of the equation. The second scripture talks about withholding sex from your husband. That can start real trouble. If you refuse a starving pet, no matter how loyal the pet, its going to get tired of begging and move around. You can't cut that man off of his lovin'! He loves you, yes, but he gets hot and, if you wait too long, he'll kick into starvation mode. He may just go back to his old ways, or even develop himself some new ways. A man that's starving will find something, somewhere. Either way it goes, them man's gotta eat. 
So if you don't have sex often, have sex some more. If you have sex often, have sex some more. 
Even now, if he's home, go do it. If you just got done doing it, tell him how good it was and, maybe, do it again. If he's not text him and tell him you want to do it. And then get ready to do it
Get to it and do it...
***Let's get involved ladies! Comment and share. The next post will be about your sexual appetite and how to get and stay hungry. Be on the look out for it...***