Chase After Him for a Change...

As you all know, I get most of my topics from personal observations. I spend quite a bit of time listening to their wives talk about their husbands and lately I've been hearing about husbands feeling unattractive because their wives don't pursue them and make them feel wanted.
Forgive me in advance for rolling my eyes...
I find it very interesting that a man can feel unwanted when they make such a big deal about being the hunter during the courting process. I've heard men complain about women that are too hard to get and women that are too easy to get. I've heard them say that they like the chase but also like the reward. I have not, however, heard a man say that they feel undesirable. But, I guess there is a first time for everything...
Anyway, your husband doesn't want you to be too clingy, but he doesn't want to run marathons to trying to catch you either. It seems like its complicated, and many of us don't have time for complicated. We need to make things as simple as possible. So what is the happy medium? What can we do to make our husbands feel like we desire them without turning into a leech?
This is one place that the world will actually come in handy...

1 Corinthians 7:34b

 "But a married woman has to think about her earthly responsibilities

and how to please her husband."

I know I use this scripture a lot. As a matter of fact, it's the theme for us Insane Wives. A married woman can be saved, sanctified and filled with the Holy Ghost, but she has to take her mind off the church when it comes to pleasing her husband. Now, when I say that we should pay attention to what the world is doing, I don't necessarily mean that we should start swinging from chandeliers and buy stripper poles (unless that's something that you and your husband have agreed on). What I'm saying is, think about some of the things that might be current and used these days:

*Send him a sexy text message to let him know what you may want to get into when you see him later.
*Inbox him and act like a stranger trying to pick him up. Of course, let him know it's you so he won't think some strange woman is trying to get his goodies, but a little role playing never hurt anybody.
*Record a 30 second video and email it to him. Just make sure that you send it to his private email, and put in the subject "For Your Eyes Only!!!" This can cause some controversy if it's opened on the company server.

There are a plethora of other options from romantic to naughty. The resources are next to endless, so use your imagination or hit up Google Search. It doesn't matter what you do, as long as your husband knows that you love him, you think he's sexy and he's on your mind. He needs affection just as much as you do, even if he acts like he doesn't.
Chase him for a change...