Happy Holiday

Don't look at me like that. Yes, I know what the flag says. I didn't invent the holiday.

 But, as a wife, feel free to celebrate it. 

1 Corinthians 7:3-5

"The marriage bed must be a place of mutuality-

the husband seeking to satisfy his wife, the wife seeking to satisfy her husband.

Marriage is not a place to 'stand up for your rights'.

Marriage is a decision to serve the other, whether in bed or out.

Abstaining from sex is permissible for a period of time if you both agree to it

and if it's for purposes of prayer and fasting- but only for such times.

Then come back together again.

Satan has a ingenious way of tempting us when we least expect it."(The Message)

Sex was created to be celebrated within marriage. That's why God created us as sexual being with feelings and urges and... such. So, since you're married, there's no reason you shouldn't be getting any! It says, clearly up there in that scripture that I found, IN THE BIBLE, that a husband should satisfy his wife and a wife should satisfy her husband... Sexually. The only time married people should abstain from sex is if its mutual, and then they should come back together... In sex.

I don't make the rules.

We have a way of making things a lot harder than they have to be. It seems that sometimes people enjoyed sex a lot more BEFORE they got married. Maybe because it was wrong to do but you did it anyway. That's backwards. Enjoy your life, your marriage and your husband now. It says "serve one another". So get to serving.

Lack of intimacy leaves room for wandering eyes which leaves room for infidelity. Nobody wants that. So...

You see the flag.Make it happen...

Happy Holiday!