So What if you Are Mad???

Let me just say before I even start that the Lord is still working this thing out in my life. My wife style is still under construction, but praise God for deliverance.
Okay let's go.
You know how your husband makes you mad?
It seems like that man makes me more mad than anyone else can. Have you ever heard how someone sees red when they're irritated. Well, my husband has been known to work my nerve to the point that I not only see red, but I see spots.
Yeah, it gets deep around here.
But the truth is, if you didn't care so much about your husband, if you didn't love him as much as you do, he wouldn't be able to press the buttons that he seems to mash so well. The thing about it is, even when he does work your last nerve, you still have to do what it is you are supposed to do for him.
Let me make it a little more plain for you.

Ephesians 4:26

"Be angry without sinning. 

Don't go to bed angry."

Proverbs 25:21-22

"If your enemy is hungry, give him food to eat,

and if he is thirsty, give him some water to drink.

In this way, you will make him feel guilty and ashamed,

and the Lord will reward you."

Sometime I wonder if God knew how hard this was going to be for me when He told Paul to write it.

Even though your hubby makes you madder than mad, you still have a duty to be his wife. I'm not telling you to completely and continually overlook the things that he may do wrong. By all mean, tell him how you feel, respectfully, of course. But allowing the things that he may do to irritate you make you so mad that you neglect your wifely duties opens a door for the enemy to come in and make a mess. And believe me, you don't want to have to work on cleaning that mess up. I'm not saying that your husband is the enemy; he's your greatest ally. However, the enemy will use anyone in your life to cause you to miss the mark, which is essentially what sin is. 

Sooo...

~When he asks you where his keys are faithfully every day, answer him nicely instead of snapping at him.
~When he forget to bring home the milk, that you text him five times and asked him not to forget, say "that's okay" and keep it moving.
~When he leaves the wet towels on the bathroom floor, right in front of the towel hamper, remind him gently of the location of the towel hamper, and that he can feel free to put the in there when he's done showering.
~And when its bed time, and he's been talking crazy to you all day, make sure you take off the granny panties and slip into that slick, sexy nightie that makes his mouth water and give him a little bit. Or a lot of bit.
In my experience, sex tends to clean the slate with the husbandman. Especially good sex.
We are responsible for taking care of our men in every way. So don't let your anger keep you from doing what you do. Because you do it well.
So, why are you mad again?
Oh yeah, good sex can clean your slate too...