Let's Get Busy!!!

***I feel as though I should put a disclosure at the beginning of this blog post... Sex is being discussed, so respectfully, if you don't want to read it, I fully understand.***

I'm writing this entry as much for myself as I am for you. So let's just get right to it shall we???

"Bless your fresh-flowing fountain! Enjoy the wife you married as a young man! Lovely as an angel, beautiful as a rose-don't ever quit taking delight in her body. Never take her love for granted! Why would you trade enduring intimacies for cheap thrills with a whore? for dalliance with a promiscuous stranger?"

Proverbs 5:18-20 MSG
 

"But since sexual immorality is occurring, each man should have sexual relations with his own wife, and each woman with her own husband. The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not have authority over his own body but yields it to his wife. Do not deprive each other except perhaps by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control."

1 Corinthians 7:2-5 NIV

Wow... Two verses for this one. Well I just wanted to make sure that you are seeing the same thing that I am seeing. 

 You're married... It's okay to have sex. As a matter of fact, it's encouraged!
When I was growing up, there were no talks about sex in my household. No explanations, no conversations. Nothing. Everything I learned about sex I learned from my friends or heard from other people. And while every conversation was informative and entertaining, it was all done in secret. So, I grew into womanhood thinking that sex was something that was fun, but to be done in the dark to cover its wrong.
When I got married, that feeling of doing something wrong never changed. I knew it was okay and I wanted to make my husband happy, but my couldn't shake this feeling that I was doing something wrong.
 

*Marriages are under a spiritual attack. Any way that the enemy can get it he will try to fit in. This is one of the ways that he tried to sabotage mine.*

Let me add a little fuel to your smoldering flames. Intimacy helps to bring you spouse closer to you not only physically, but emotionally as well. I'm not sure why. Maybe it's because making love helps to release the tensions that build in everyday life. Possibly it's because it's a type of exercise (You always feel better after a good workout ;) ).
Now that I think about it, does it really matter why it your bond with your boo gets stronger. Do you really need more reasons.
Okay...
Your husband enjoys it.
You might not think you enjoy it. Maybe you won't enjoy it.... at first. But we as wives have to change our attitudes and perspectives about our lives, marriages and husbands. That will greatly help the situation.
You got him, girl! Don't stop now!!!

Let me help you out. Forgive me for being blunt, but if you're married, then you're at least at the age of consent:
It is okay to be saved, sanctified, filled with the Holy Ghost and get freaky with your husband. IT'S OKAY!!!
God ordained sex to be in the confines of marriage. Why wouldn't He want you both to be happy and satisfied if that's how He designed it? And if most of us are honest, some of us were freaky before we got married....
Uhoh...
Anyhoo...
Sometime we women have to relax. It takes a lot to be a strong woman in these times. So often, we forget that we can take a deep breath and relax. Enjoy your husband and let him enjoy you. Sex isn't just an action; its a gateway to get closer with your man.
You got him, girl! Don't stop now!!!