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Monday, July 7, 2014

Kiss Him, Girl!!!

 

Have you ever seen that television show that ends every episode saying "Take a little time to enjoy the view"?
Well you, my dear, need to take a little time and kiss your husbands.
Yeah, you read it right. I said, KISS YOUR HUSBAND.
And I'm not just talking about a peck here and there. I mean the real deal. A back bending, mind blowing, smearing your lipstick kind of kiss.
Why am I discussing this, you may ask? Well, I'll tell you.
But first, a scripture!

Song of Solomon 1:2
"Let him kiss me with the kisses
Of his mouth!
For your love is better than wine..."
 
Yes, kisses are a wonderful thing. Don't know where they came from, but it was an awesome invention.
So, why should you kiss your husband? There are so many reason, but let me hit you with just a few:
Kissing lowers stress levels. Who couldn't use a little anxiety relief?
It decreases the stress hormone cortisol and increases serotonin, which gives effects similar to meditation. It also improves our moods by increasing endorphins, which is known as the feel good hormone. 
Kissing promotes oral health. Who needs a dentist when you have a husband to kiss?
It improves our immunity by releasing antibodies that kill bacteria. And kissing helps us prevent cavities by increasing saliva that washes our teeth. It has also been shown that our saliva secretes natural antibiotics when we kiss. (Just kidding about the dentist)
Kissing calms us down and promotes pleasure. In other words, it gets the juices flowing!
It increases levels of oxytocin otherwise known as the "love hormone" which calms us down. It also reduces pain through our saliva which contains a kind of anesthetic and increases pleasure by releasing dopamine. It puts something on your mind for later. *wink wink*
Kissing keeps a marriage strong. Who is closer than 2 people whose faces are touching? LOL
It promotes togetherness. It's been said that couples who kiss regularly live five years longer than those who don’t.

Honestly, anything promotes intimacy and bonding is good for your marriage. When you are kissing, you aren't arguing or even thinking about arguing. You are 100% focused on your man, and he needs that. It's good for you as well. It puts your mind at ease. You know that, for a few minutes, he is totally and completely taken with you. Yes, kissing may lead to sex, and I'm sorry if I feel like that isn't exactly a horrible thing. But, it can be a preview for the coming attraction.
Also, kissing can be romantic and sexy and flirty and hot. Who doesn't want that when you're married. There are too many rumors floating around that intimacy ends at the "I do". It should not be all bills and babies in your marriage. Spice it up, doll!
A kiss when waking, another before leaving and one when he arrives home can set the atmosphere for when the kids are in bed. It may not work, but then again, what if it does?
Gone girl. Give him a kiss...
 
 
 
 
 
 


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