Feeling Sexy, Ladies???

To be or not to be? Sexy, that is....
Are you feeling sexy today?
You should. I have come to the realization that sexy is not an outfit or a special occasion.
It's an attitude.
A few posts back I talked about privacy and personal space. In that post, I also talked about how confidence is sexy, because it is.
I don't know how many men I have heard say that if a woman acts like she doesn't love and care about herself, no matter how physically pretty she is, she is totally unattractive to him. Now, I'm not saying that you have to live up to any man's standards. You can be whomever you want to be. But just remember, as a wife, it is in your best interest to keep your husband's attention toward you.
Wandering eyes lead to straying away.
Confidence isn't just for other people to believe in you. It is an important factor for you to believe in yourself. Who wants to invest in a company that its executives won't back? Or buy a product that even the manufacturers won't use? When you like things about you, and accentuate the positive, you'll begin to feel amazing and fall in love with you.

Hebrews 10:35

"Therefore do not throw away

Your confidence,

Which has a great reward."

I remember, when my husband and I were separated, I would always make sure that I looked my best in church on Sunday. I could be a hot mess the rest of the week (and I usually was!), but because I knew that would be the day I would see him, I wanted to make sure that he would be able to see what he was missing out on when he left. And it would never fail that, every Sunday, he would find a way to tell me how nice I looked.
Ha!
However, I realized that I liked making myself look good. I enjoyed wearing clothes that fit and combing my hair to look nice. I liked putting on make up and taking time to make sure that I looked great. It made me feel better. The phrase "when you look good you feel good" is an absolute truth. You stand up a little straighter, walked with your head held up a little higher and it feels amazing.
Sexy is not in a short skirt or a push-up bra. Those things only enhance the outside. If the inside is full of mess, nothing attracted to the outer will last anyway.
If you are unhappy with some things about yourself, only you can decide when to change them and how you want to change them. Your husband will love what you love. Wake up every day and tell yourself, "I'm sexy and I know it". Even if it is in yoga pants and tank tops. Sexy is a state of mind.
So, how sexy are you feeling now???